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  1. When my marriage split up, I actually relied on some of these as well. I turned to God and got involved in some new hobbies.

  2. Because... I'm cheap says:

    Great tips. Love #10 😉 He is ever present, even in those moments we feel completely alone.

  3. don’t rush dating again is so important. i know too many people who have rushed into dating after a break up or divorce and i don’t think it is healthy at all. i like to take some time to heal

  4. Eileen xo says:

    I can only imagine how difficult a time it is going through things. I love its ookay not to be o0kay.

  5. Elizabeth O. says:

    These are definitely true. It’s important to find yourself first after a break-up and make sure that you make yourself happy as well.

  6. After a bad relationship, I have learned how strong I am. Sure, there was a lot of crying, and I mean, a lot. However, I wanted to show the other party that I am not the person he thinks I am. With God’s Grace, I pulled through.

  7. I have learnt that it is important to not let pain define you either as if you focus too much on pain it makes you feel worse in the long run.

  8. Angela Milnes says:

    Good points. I’ve been heartbroken in the past with two divorces and it was hard going but I overcame it and became a better and stronger person. Angela

  9. In this list, #5 and #9 are the most difficult. It’s easy to move on, but to forget about your pains that’s a different story. You gotta give yourself just enough time to sulk but make sure that in the process you don’t lose yourself. For #9, it’s the same, you need to give yourself time to sulk and eventually you’ll pick up the pieces and time will come that it no longer hurts. I think that’s when forgiveness comes.

  10. pain and heartbreak sometimes need to be undergone so on the next time you fall in love, you know exactly how you will love more,

  11. the pain that our hears go through in life some make us strong and some leave us scarred forever. I think we have all felt this pain and if I could I would offer you (((HUGS)))

  12. You’ve learned some really great lessons. I especially think not rushing into another relationship is important.

  13. The few time too many that I suffered from heartbreak I find that completely removing the person from my life is the way to go. Sucks but for me out of sight and out of mind works in this situations!

  14. Freedom does come from forgiveness. It’s not so hard to do now that I’m older, but the hurt still comes just as easy. I guess we just learn to deal with things better as we age a bit. 🙂

  15. What I’ve learned about pain is that it really just takes time to get over and be able to move on.

  16. I can identify with this, especially with “don’t rush dating again”. Somehow along your journey towards moving on you’ll find this urge to find someone to fill the void. Don’t ever fall into the trap. You’ll only hurt yourself more.

  17. heartbreak is never easy, and yes I agree a good support system is really needed and could help a lot 🙂

  18. This is a very true post, a good support system is a must.

  19. I’ve learned not to have online relationships as they are never the same when you meet. There’s always something that changes so to avoid pain and drama, don’t have them at all. Friendship is the better way to go.

  20. Audrey Okaneko says:

    Support systems are the best!!!! Not every friend is a friend for the same reason. I’m fortunate to know many people and I try to find support where I’m certain I’ll get it for any particular purpose.

  21. Excellent post! Sorry you have experienced pain and heartbreak, but it’s wonderful to share so others can learn and be comforted.

  22. Support system is very key.
    I have been thru this. It always hurts most when it is fresh and you see others happy.

  23. Molli Vandehey says:

    i am learning all of these except i think people feel i rusheddating, but i realized my best friend was the right guy